Thursday, January 30, 2014

The Guru Encourages You To Exercise Your Mind

The Guru Of Getting It On, encourages you to exercise your mind just like you do your body.

While a fluffy body is not that attractive to most, a fluffy mind is equally unattractive.  

What can you do to exercise your mind?

Read a Book.

Do a mind Puzzle.

Take a class.

Have great conversations.


Monday, January 27, 2014

Learn From The Guru Of Getting It On

We want to invite you to check out this Sexual Meditation Practice from The Guru of Getting it On.

Soon, you and your lover will be experiencing the bliss.

Saturday, January 25, 2014

How Is The Friendship In Your Relationship?

Do you consider your partner, your friend also?  If not this is a starting point to working on your relationship.  

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Smiles, Mean The Sex Will Be Better

Few couples make the connection between a partner's low sex drive and a mood disorder such as depression. While most people know what it feels like to be down or have "the blues," depression is a serious mental illness that can interfere with a person's sexuality and relationship in all kinds of ways. Many people, however, don't know what depression looks like, and that's a problem, because if you don't know what you're faced with, you're going to have a hard time making things better.
Depression and a low sex drive go together in a couple of ways:
  • Fatigue is a big part of depression, so if you frequently feel "too tired" for sex, it might be a symptom of a mood problem.
  • You may not enjoy things you used to enjoy doing, and sex may be one of them.
  • Although you may be hurting, your behavior may send signals that you want to be left alone, causing emotional distance between yourself and your partner.
  • You feel lethargic, as if you could hardly move; since sex requires movement, it carries little appeal.
  • Feeling hopeless or helpless are common in depression--and not very sexy.
Feeling depressed is not a sign of a character flaw. In our culture, we are often told to "Buck up," "Get on with life," or "Smile, it's contagious," which makes admitting that one is down very difficult. Depression happens for all kinds of reasons, but is usually connected to feelings of loss or worthlessness. Depression can also be physical, as when someone's hormones are out of balance or there is a chronic illness. Unfortunately, depression sometimes gets missed because not everyone knows its symptoms.
You might also consider that one reason you may be feeling depressed is because you aren't having enough sex. Orgasm helps the body to relax. Many brain chemicals, including serotonin, are released in the brain during orgasm. If you are in the habit of denying your sexual needs, you might be at risk for depression. If you don't have a partner available or don't feel up to partnered sex, you might try self-pleasuring in order to have sexual, physical, and emotional release from built up tension.
If you suspect that depression is getting in the way of sexual connection and pleasure, you have many options for getting better, including medication, psychotherapy, and self-help, e.g., developing a more positive outlook and a healthy routine. Please be aware that antidepressants can have sexual side effects, which you should discuss with your physician. In the meantime, you and your partner will need to learn how to stay connected even though you may feel bad. Try to tune into yourself to see what you might need, rather than denying yourself. Listen to what your partner needs, too, because feeling needed may help you feel less depressed.
Dr. Stephanie Buehler is the author of Sex, Love, and Mental Illness: A Couple's Guide to Staying Connected. She is a psychologist, sex therapist, and Director of The Buehler Institute in Newport Beach, CA. If you want to learn more about relationships and sexuality, visit her blog at

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Saturday, January 18, 2014

Water Is A Conductor Of Love

Water is a conductor of love.

If your like most people there is a strong connection between water and romance.  Think about it what are the most romantic places. The Beach, waterfalls, lakes, streams, etc it is my feeling that water conducts love!  I feel like when you are near a body of water that you can feel the love of all the other lovers that have been by that body of water.  Now if you are open that love will fill you up and create even more love in the two of you.

Try this next time you are near a body of water and see how romantic you feel.  

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Please Don't Be A Douchebag

If you feel the need to be a douchebag please take a deep breath and relax.  We will all hope that your moment of being a douchebag will pass.

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Monday, January 13, 2014

Messages From The Heart - Hits Amazon for the Kindle

The second practice from The Guru of Getting It On hits Amazon Kindle Today.  

Work Out Your Biggest Sex Organ - Your Mind

You mind it your biggest sexy organ.  So, you should take the same steps to work it out your do the rest of your body.  This video will give you some suggestions. 

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Ladies The Romance Is In Your Hands

Women when you think of romance what do you envision. Candle light dinner, walks on the beach, making love under in a dim lit room, might pop into your head. Do you think these are the things your partner is thinking about when you talk about romance. Sure he/she might like to do these things to be romantic for you but what do you feel like they would like you to do that they would see as romantic? Maybe taking them to the big game, hot steamy lingerie worn for their pleasure, or even time spent on the couch snuggling during the race with both of you yelling at your favorite driver. You have to remember your vision of romance and his are going to be different, so when you are trying to be romantic for him, cater the evening towards his tastes. Like wise you would love to be catered to when he is trying to romance you. We have to look at it through the eyes of our partner to see their vision of romance. Be bold and ask them what they feel would be romantic then store the knowledge for later down the road. Remember you are trying to make them feel wonderful not you! Your turn will come.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Everyone Needs A Woody From Time To Time

“I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.” 
― Woody Allen

Click the Above image to get Woody Allen's "Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex*Movie. 

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Our Newest Product Out Soon!

Here is a little glimpse of our newest product that will be out very soon.  

Hope you are as excited as we are!  Will post link when it comes available.  

Monday, January 6, 2014

Create A Turning Point In Your Relationship

Messages from the Heart are sure to bring you lots of ways to tell each other how much you love one another.  This simple practice from The Guru Of Getting It On, just might create a turning point in your relationship.

You Have Five Basic Senses Do You Use Them All

Change the mood and change your experience. This Sexy Challenge helps you uncover a lot about you and your lover. You will learn what affects your mood by using the five main senses: touch, smell, sound, sight and taste. Raise your awareness of what things act like an aphrodisiac for you and for your partner. What brings about erotic feelings and sensations? Each and every time you do this challenge it will be different. This is an experience that you may very well want to repeat over and over again. 

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Maithuna Exercises For Lovers

If the stresses of modern life have left your married life dull, uninspiring, cold and in need of a desperate makeover, it's time to take action before it's too late.
Tantra is an ancient Indian practice through which sex, sexuality, awareness and pleasure become the tools to reach unity between lovers and the universe. One particular Tantric exercise, called Maithuna, is one important tool to experience a deep, profound and powerful union and intimacy with your spouse.
Maithuna refers to the process of yogic sexual union. In other words - the process of uniting one or more things into one entity. To prepare for Maithuna, the couple should prepare the room in a sensual and inviting way. Get out the candles, prepare some relaxing cushions, light your aromatherapy burner, put on some soothing music, and prepare some tasty nibbles. Bathe separately or together and put on some light clothing or robes. Take the time to enjoy each other's company; talk about the day's events (focusing on the positives!), complement each other and simply enjoy the moment.
The aim of this exercise is deep yet gentle union. Start by building your arousal through light touching and stroking of the lover. Men should visualize the Yoni (Vagina) in all it's majestic glory, and women should visualize the lingham (penis) as firm and hard. This further increases arousal.
With the man aroused, he should now enter the female slowly but firmly, making sure that the parties are facing each other. The ideal position for this exercise is one in which the man is seated cross-legged and the female sits on top of him, wrapping her legs around his waist. Initially the female should gently milk the man, and the man should move slowly. Do this for about 5 - 10 minutes. Now both parties should remain still and continue with an intimate visualization exercise.
Both the man and the woman should visualize red energy around their first chakra (or energy centre) located around the genitals. Imagine this red sexual energy slowly intensifying and then merging into the partners energy centre. Slowly imagine this red sexual energy moving up the energy centers along the spine, through the throat, forehead, and up to the top of the head. Visualize pink and gold heart energy moving from your heart into your lover's heart in a complete and continuous circuit. After about 15 - 20 minutes look gently into your lover's eyes and deeply connect with them. No words are required, as the intense feelings and union will transcend the spoken word.
Now simply rest, continue on to more stimulation or remain in this state for as long as both desire.
WARNING : The exercise is very powerful!
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Thursday, January 2, 2014

I'm To Sexy..You Know You All Sing This Song!

One hit wonders Right Said Fred, might have had one of the sexiest songs ever.  The lyrics were not mind provoking but they were straight to the point.  Maybe they were not the best band ever but they will be remembered as Too Sexy....

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Damn It Yesterday, Why Do You Mess Things Up?

"I am amazed by how many individuals 
mess up every new day with yesterday."

Start this year out correctly and forget about yesterday - The Guru Of Getting It On

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Happy New Year Everyone!!! From the Guru Of Getting It On

Happy and Healthy Relationships to everyone