Friday, August 29, 2014

Connect In Your Pregnancy By Having Sex

Many men (and women) worry that pregnancy sex - having intimate relations during a period of pregnancy - will be difficult and may have a negative impact on a couple's sex lives. In fact, using various sex positions can ensure that a couple can continue to have an active, healthy and thoroughly enjoyable sex life all during the pregnancy. Coupled with appropriate attention to penis health, using appropriate sex positions will allow partners to maintain closeness and intimacy as they progress to parenthood.
Are there health and safety concerns?
Some people (especially men) may be overly worried about how sex can damage a woman or a fetus. In some cases, of course, there are complications or special considerations that may require extra care be taken in terms of sexual activity; these are things that should be discussed with the attending physician.
In general, however, a woman is just as capable (and desirous) of having sex during the pregnancy period as she is when not pregnant. There may be times when sex is not the best idea: for example, a woman who experiences severe morning sickness is unlikely to be in the mood for a "quickie" before work. However, common sense will guide both the man and the woman in determining appropriate times for sex.
What may be substantially "different" in the sexual activity are the sex positions used. Again, this may not be true for all couples; many partners engage in a wide range of positions before pregnancy and so are already accustomed to the positions they will use during pregnancy.
Others, however, may be primarily "missionary position" lovers, or may tend to use another position almost exclusively. These partners may need to expand their horizons somewhat and enter into new territory.
What positions are best?
There is no right or wrong answer to "what position is best" when pregnant. A position that works for one couple may not for another. The things to keep in mind are:
  • Are we both comfortable with the position?
  • Are we both getting what we want from the position?
  • Does the position avoid putting too much weight or pressure on the uterus and/or the woman's stomach?
In addition, in later stages of pregnancy, it is best to avoid positions where a woman is flat on her back, as the weight of the fetus can put excessive pressure on her spinal cord. That said, here are some positions that many pregnant couples explore.
  1. Perpendicular bodies position. Many couples prefer this because the positioning of the genitals is similar to the traditional missionary position. In this position, the woman lies on the back, but with her hips on the edge of the bed, her feet on the floor. The husband positions himself between her legs and penetrates, but remains standing (or kneeling) so that his torso does not put any pressure on the uterus or abdomen.

  2. Side by side position. This is similar to taking the missionary position and turning it on its side. The couple faces each other, lying on their sides. Balance can be a bit challenging for some people.

  3. Spooning position. Here, both couples lie on their sides, but the man is behind the woman and his penis enters the vagina from behind. Again, balance can be an issue, but many couples like the special intimacy of spooning.

  4. Woman on top position. The man lies on his back and the woman places herself atop him, guiding the penis into her vagina.

  5. Doggy position. Also called "rear entry," in this position the woman kneels on her hands and knees and the man enters from behind. Many women find this position allows for intense orgasms, but it can also be tiring, and support may be needed for the weight of the growing baby.
Pregnancy sex can be a unique and very special experience. Keeping the penis in good health through the use of a top notch penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) will contribute to a man's enjoyment of the experience. Opt for a cream that includes a superior antioxidant, such as alpha lipoic acid, to offset harmful oxidative processes in penile cells. One that also includes vitamin D, for improved cell functionality, is essential.
Visit for more information about treating common penis health problems, including soreness, redness and loss of penis sensation. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.

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Thursday, August 28, 2014

Your Bedroom Is Your Altar

5 Ways to create the romantic bedroom of your dreams

It’s that time of year again, when we are coming into the autumn months and looking forward to warm and cosy nights in and part of this means changing our bedroom decor. Now you don’t have to go the whole hog and completely change your interior design, but making some small changes can really help you to get the romantic bedroom of your dreams. Here are some top tips to creating the perfect space this year.
Get rid of the clutter.
We are all guilty of it from time to time, but we do collect clutter and it soon builds up. However our bedrooms are meant to be the one place that we can truly relax after a long day at work or looking after the kids. Creating a beautiful romantic bedroom is not going to happen if you are surrounded by the ironing piles or books.
Start by removing everything from the floor and assessing the space that you currently have. If you have wardrobes with extra storage then look to store bed linens in there, or alternatively there are many style of beds that offer extra storage. An Ottoman bed like this one from Tempur Beds is perfect of ease of use and hiding away all that clutter you don’t want others to see.

Look at your lighting
A romantic bedroom is all about the lighting you are using. Any romance novel will tell you that you need soft and relaxing tones, so out with the stark white bulbs and in with calmer tones. Equally you don’t always want to have to rely on ceiling light. Look at getting some reading lamps, with lamp shades that will emit a low tone, almost like candle light.
Look for pink tinted bulbs which are at a maximum of 60 Watts, this will create a warm glow throughout the room and offer you enough light to still read by before you sleep.
Get some new bedding
There is nothing better than getting into a freshly made bed at the end of a long day. New sheets feel crisp and will help you to get a comfortable night sleep. So why not start by choosing some brand new bedding for your new romantic room.
The styles of bedding you choose is going to come down to your personal taste, silk, patterned, cotton...the choice is yours. However for a romantic and relaxing space, a singular colour with limited pattern like this one from Dunelm Mill is a great and simple choice.
The vintage or modern conundrum
Deciding the style of bedroom you want to project is equally as important to setting a mood as anything else. One mistake that a lot of us make is that we mix our styles and cause confusion in the process. Having a clear design vision for the room is as important as any of the furnishings you choose.
Once you have decided upon the style for you, look for colour schemes and ornaments that work singularly with that style. So for a vintage style room you may go for fresh flowers, an ornate mirror and some candles. For a modern room, then minimalism is the key; block photo frames and a feature wall work really well.

Pick up a great read to go along with your new bedroom also

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

The Guru's Exercise Program For Sex

Great sex just doesn't happen and having your body prepared to enjoy all that pleasure can be as simple as adding some exercises to your normal routine.  

Sexy Challenges also helps keep you in shape for sex also.

Monday, August 25, 2014

Marriage Proposal Of Epic Size

This video is not only a touching moment but very creative.  The use of family members and friends made this extra special for everyone involved.  This video is a great example of how people are using technology for good reasons.

Start Speaking Kind Words And A Proposal Might Be In Your Future.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Billy Idol gets down with Jesus in his Plastic Jesus video.  

Who knew Billy Idol was so spiritual???


Pick up your copy of Fantasy Football to play with your beloved.

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Friday, August 22, 2014

Love Is All Around You

Sometimes you just have to open your heart to feel the love.  We so often go out searching for the love we desire that we don't realize that it is all around us.  We are expecting fireworks and huge signs of love that we sometimes forget that the simplest little gestures or the soft kisses are about love also.  Today I challenge you to see the beauty in all the little signs of love you can find.  Maybe it is that your partner kissed you when they got up to leave for work, or you kids helped you when they saw you struggling, maybe it is even just your dog laying their head in your lap.  There are little signs of love all around us, don't ignore them.

This post is dedicated to the late Robin Williams, know that you were loved by many.

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Headaches, Who Needs Them

Our Friend the Barefoot Body Worker instructs us on how to get rid of that headache so we can get on to some more fun things.  

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Monday, August 18, 2014

Internet Or Television Or Getting Busy With Your Lover? Easy Choice For Me

We have not hit a point in history where Television is not the biggest time consumer of the general public.  The internet has knocked Television off the top spot as the biggest time consumer our people.  While we love the power and connection of the interment we still want you to take the time to connect with your partner offline.  So make sure for every minute you are on the internet you take that much time to be with your lover.  

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Sunday, August 17, 2014

Comedies New King Jim Gaffigan

Jim Gaffigan is one of our favorite comedians because he brings some of the sad states of our life into his comedy routine.  We can all relate to what Jim is talking about.  

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Saturday, August 16, 2014

Make Things Happen

One thing that I feel is an amazing thing to use in your pursuit of your dreams or goals is to post motivational notes around to keep you pumped up.  I personally have one in my car that I witness every time I get in it that says "The Time Is Now"  Post them on your bathroom mirror, in your refrigerator, on your closet door.  Wherever you are going to look several times a day put that little reminder of what you are striving for.  These notes can be for creating your business, losing weight, improving your relationship, the list goes on and on for what you can use these for.  So...

Make Things Happen!

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Do A Little Walking And Talking

One of the sexiest things I have found is what I call the walk and talk.  It is as simple as it sounds.  You just take a walk in a place that allows only talking between the two of you.  If you can find a private place such as a walk along the beach in the mooring, a winding trail through the woods, or even a stroll through a quiet neighborhood, these are the best.   It allows the two of you to connect and exercise at the same time.  It has been my experience that we actually even forget about the exercise part, to the point we can't believe how far we have walked.  

So get out today and have a Walk and Talk.  

Pick up our book Conversation Starters to help get the conversation on your walk and talk rolling.

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Fun Is The Name Of All Games

I think the one thing people forget about the most in life is to have fun.  Fun is what makes life worth living without it life would just be a race to the finish.  Very rarely do you hear about people talking about the worst times in their life.  Most want to talk about the funniest times they have had.  It has been proven that couples that have fun together have the best relationships, and children that have more fun grow up to be better adults. 

So what are you waiting for,

Have Some Fun!

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Bathing In Candle Light

Most of us bath on a regular basis, be it in a shower or bath.  We cleans our body of the dirt and water is a fabulous means for that cleanings.  However candle light bathing can be just as cleaning.  Allowing candle light to consume your body in a darkened room can give you insight like you have never had before.  To be silent with only the sound of the flame it allows your mind to open up and amazing ideas, dreams and suggestions to enter you very being.  Try it next time before you take your shower of bath.  Sit in the darkness with only candle light and experience this different way of bathing.  Then take your bath or shower as normal with the knowledge that you have bathed twice.  
Your Are Super Spiritually Clean!

If you like this try out this one to connect you with Nature.


Monday, August 11, 2014

Only Robin Williams Could Have Been Mork

Robin Williams comedy genius past today.  No matter the circumstances around his death the man brought some amazing humor to the world.  I was introduced to him as Mork the character that visited Fonzie on Happy Days.  Which lead to the amazing show Mork and Mindy.  So I wanted to share one of those classic Mork calling Orson moments from the end of the show.  

Nanu Nanu to your Robin!

Standing Out Begins With The Kids

Standing out is not always easy.  We are so expected to conform and be like everyone else.  It saddens me to think about how we try to make our children fit into a mold.  That have to learn the same things as everyone else, we do not let them stand out.  For them to stand out they must buck the system which makes them an outcast in most societies.  My wish is for you to encourage creativity in your children.  Allow them to let life flow through them as they desire.

On the opposite side of that I want you to do the same.  Think back to when you realized that you had to fit in or give up on your dreams.  Instead of being saddened by that start driving towards those dreams now.  It is not to late the power is still in you take the inspiration from your children they will show you how to dream and imagine again.  

Get your conversations flowing with our book Conversation Starters
Your relationship will love you for it. 
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Tuesday, August 5, 2014

The Art of Grilling...NOT

Grilling out is usually a wonderful thing.  However, is you grill is lacking a conversion grill takes away from the beauty of grilling out.   Do us all a favor and don't use this redneck grill.

Now if you want to grill right thing check this out:

The word Braai is what Americans call Barbeque. South Africans call it Braai.

This site will give you great recipes to create amazing things on your grill.  

Click below to start making your mouth water. 

Monday, August 4, 2014

Don't Let Technology Invade Your Private Space

Pardon the sexual humor here but it shows how technology is actually invading our lives in all ways. So put the dang phone down and enjoy life.  

Learn to Actually Speak Kind word Again...

Sunday, August 3, 2014

Darkness Is What Makes Light Beautiful

The stars look amazing agains the darkness, and you can't see them at all when it is light outside!

Keep the Darkness Alive...

Saturday, August 2, 2014

Super Sized Beers Taking Over

Really thirsty?  Well this new super sized beer is just what you need.  The only problem is that ordering a case of these requires a moving van.  

Drink in More...

Friday, August 1, 2014

Giving Is Beautiful

On of the most special books ever created.  The giving tree is about giving unconditionally allowing love to rule your decisions!  It is a beautiful book and you should read to your children.  

Keep Giving With Sexy Challenges...